Love is all over the place. I sometimes get the impression that everything evolves around it. 80% of what's projected from the television screens deals with the topic. Right around the corner is the next love series like the O.C. Even the history channel will talk about some queens medieval affair. Books are no different. You can find a lot of titles that promise advice on how to get over an ex or even how to get your ex boyfriend back. Entertainment publications, talk about about celebrities. Most of these celebrities took part in a movie that was about love.

But this obsession with the topic has been there for centuries and I don't think it will change any time soon.

Please don't think I'm against it. On the contrary I'm all for love and think people should talk about it more, but in a slightly different form. Especially in countries like Canada and Russia. Because their number of citizens is slowly going down. Large number of people in those countries are brainwashed into believing that money is the most important thing. T.V and Radio pays more attention to one's wallet size than the family size. There are still plenty of love shows and other romantic media. Alas, they show scenes of drama and tragedy, we don't see enough family happiness and unity. They show cheating adventures of a husband as if it was the norm. Why not show a faithful husband that comes home to spend time with his kids. We see the same trend in printed media. There are now more and more books that explain how to get over a bad breakup. Titles that talk about how to get your ex boyfriend back are rare and far between. Books that make you fight for your love and not give up should be more prevalent. When was the last time you saw a best seller like that?

In certain parts of the country 1 out of 3 couples divorces after a mere 2 years of marriage. When will it end? Those are mind blowing statistics! Did people stop trying to fix their problems and simply abandon ship? May be they should stick around and work out the differences instead. If the wife is cheating it does not mean the husband needs to breakup right away. This act of betrayal, could have been provoked by something. Could it have been avoided if the husband was more attentive? Could this be a one time thing, that can be prevented if the couple establishes a better spiritual connection? I think the 80 / 20 rule applies here too, where as 80 percent of the difference is caused by 20 percent of change. Many estranged women say that they left because they weren't getting any acknowledgment.

So let's appreciate each other more. Let's look beyond things that differentiate us and concentrate on things that unite us. Let's be tolerant to each other. We can choose the feelings of fondness instead of anger. For we shall pass here but once.

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